Comments on: Oh Joe

By: Zo

Zo — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 19:36:34 +0000

i expect you do get it, some of it, anyway. that you do know an under-parented girl is going to make poor choices in the face of the horrific pressures from young men. so what’s yr, bitch, dear? bageant’s little “joke” was funny only if one overlooks the human female side of things, which is precisely my point. it seemed rather objectifying, no? (right, like you’re going to change my mind on this.)

By: bmo

bmo — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 17:51:26 +0000

how can anyone be seen to have a genuine sense of self when they – each and all – have been lumped together, in this case, as girls.

that’s nuts.

and what are we left with? an argument that offers up the opposite, that girls have been taught too well, and have a very strong and clear sense of self, and take exactly what they want in life and play it off as giving?

that’s nuts too.

there are too many people who think only of themselves, selves highly developed and keenly honed in the predatory arts – men and women.

still not sure why J’s little sex/mind joke is provoking such a singular reaction about self and adapting to the norms of society and the rules of sexual engagement.

of course i don’t get it. i am a man.

easy out.

By: Zo

Zo — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 00:45:47 +0000

well, yes, and that’s what i’m saying, and i hear it’s terribly common now, in lieu of “real” sex … but i don’t see that this diminishes the sadness one damn bit. men think only of themselves (too much) and are—i generalize a tad—predatory in their wants—and women think of others too much and surrender … and adapt to a society in no position to acquaint girls, first, with a genuine sense of who they are. which is the only way to act in free choice—and now we are back to my post.

By: annie

annie — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 00:28:58 +0000

as someone who was once a (too) young girl, my recollection is that blow jobs were typically forced, expected, or both.

By: bmo

bmo — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 19:40:27 +0000

not really, no.

the opposite of fellatio being cunnilingus, I assume, not anal sex, which is its own opposite.

i guess i’ve only ever met well-fathered girls in my life.

of course all of this is becoming a distant memory

isn’t there some satisfaction in giving pleasure, though?

is oral always seen as a demand?